The Moment Everything Changed

When I was in college, I volunteered as a reading tutor for elementary school kids in some of the poorest neighborhoods in Central Virginia. Having experienced poverty myself as a child, I felt a special kinship with my students as we worked through the reading lessons each week. Soon, I found out that the people who ran the tutoring programs weren’t actually volunteers themselves – it was their JOB to find tutors to help these kids and they took home a steady paycheck for doing this work.

That’s pretty much the moment everything changed for me in my professional life.

I realized that you could get paid for doing good work. You could actually make a living by helping people. And ever since then, that’s been my ultimate goal for my career. To be able to share my unique gifts with the world and help others in their leadership journeys.

No matter what industry you may be in, most of us have some type of story about how we got into our current career field. Most of us can remember that moment or period in our professional lives when everything changed in our understanding of what we were good at or passionate about. Some people even recall being “called” to their professions, citing a compelling spiritual or emotional power that led them into their current work. You may be thinking now of that lightbulb that went off in your head at some point and made you realize that XYZ is truly what you want to do.

What was that moment like for you?

As for me, my volunteer tutoring experiences started me on a path to paid work in the nonprofit sector – research and communications for a new youth program, grant proposals for community development agencies, technical assistance for small nonprofits, fundraising for a membership association, leadership development for future CEOs and now consulting. I’ve dipped my toe in many different organizational missions and areas of expertise, but my overall goal has always stayed the same. It’s always been in line with the spirit of that moment in my professional life when it became clear to me that I wanted my work to help people in some way.

Why the trip down memory lane? Well, I’ve found that what’s great about reminiscing about what brought you here in the first place (wherever the “here” is for you) is that it can provide affirmation that you are, in fact, doing the right work. It can also bring clarity for where you want to go next and how you might get there.

So tell me, what was the moment when everything changed for you in your professional life? Or are you still waiting for it?

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  • Anonymous

    Hi Rosetta, I was interning for United Way in my hometown when I had my professional “ah ha!” moment… we had put together a meeting of 15-20 food providers (food banks, kitchens, pantries, grocery stores, etc). Many of these people had never met, but had the same goals and were struggling with some of the same issues. This meeting gave them an opportunity to talk, network, and learn that they were not alone. They started talking about ways to share products when they had too much, ways they could network to better serve their communities, and ways that they had each overcome issues that the others were also facing. It just hit me… I was shocked that coordinating one meeting could make such an impact in a community… and I haven’t looked back since!

    • http://www.rosettathurman.com/ Rosetta Thurman

      Thanks for sharing your story! I love this part: “I was shocked that coordinating one meeting could make such an impact in a community” – we often don’t realize the impact we can have until we actually start doing & leading.

  • Butterflylaw

    Hi Rosetta, I had the moment when I left a top law firm in the City of London to take on a more involved role in the suburbs. In my new role I finally had the time (a lunchbreak) to reflect on what i really wanted out of life. What I really want to do is to use my skills to help people and change the world. So reading your blog today has reconfirmed that what I’m doing is the right thing. I’m encouraged and excited to work in the non-profit sector and actually make a difference to people’s lives not just their already full bank balances. :-)

    • http://www.rosettathurman.com/ Rosetta Thurman

      I meet a lot of lawyers who want to transition to nonprofit work because they desire something more fulfilling from their career. It’s a trend that I don’t think is going to go away anytime soon because so many people really do want to help others. All the best to you in your new role and thanks for reading my blog!

  • http://www.rosettathurman.com/ Rosetta Thurman

    Thanks for the link! Love Dan’s take on this.

  • http://asummermoon.com asummermoon

    Hi Rosetta, Just when I was feeling scattered brain and a little frustrated in my job search, this post helped me remember why I must remain determined not to settle for mediocrity. My story is very similar to yours, I was born and raised in Camden, NJ and somehow knew that one day I would need to believe in the people there(and other poverty-stricken communities) just as someone believed in me. After a stunt in substance abuse, I’m still trying to figure out just how to do that but I am reassured that I’m on the right path.

  • Eric B. Horn

    Ms. Thurman,

    Great Post! I would say the “moment that everything changed for me” is happening right now. I’ve been in the Information Technology industry for over nine years however I’ve always had a passion to give positive advice especially from a professional standpoint. My not so good experiences at my past job had put me in a position to not to point the finger at the unprofessionalism that occurred but to teach as many people as I can about personal and professional development. For the people that do know about being professional there’s a much larger amount of people that don’t.

    • http://twitter.com/shayrunsthecity Shannon

      Good for you for trying to be positive. So many skilled people pat themselves on the back, and look down on others who don’t have their skills.

  • http://twitter.com/shayrunsthecity Shannon

    The moment things changed in my career was when one of my twitter friends asked me to help her with a paper. I had always helped my family with their stuff, and gotten paid sometimes, but it was more of a familial obligation than a professional one. When that first client sent me money via PayPal, just because of a two page outline, I realized that I had marketable skills. When the money arrived, and I paid two bills AND bought an outfit, I realized I could, and should, do more than get by on alimony/child support.