10 Ways to Fall Back in Love With Your Job

Last year, a Conference Board survey found that only 45% U.S. workers were satisfied in their jobs, the lowest level since 1987. Young people seemed to get the shortest end of the stick, as workers younger than 25 were the most unhappy in their jobs. But even if you’re one of the few who do like your job, if you’ve been working in the same job for years, it can still be difficult to keep the fire alive. Especially after a particularly bad or hectic day, it can seem impossible to stay positive with all the challenges brought on by the economic downturn. You may even have had taken on the role of two or three positions, causing your grunt work to increase. All the while, you may be asking yourself, ‘why am I here?’ Even though you may not be feeling the love right now, here are 10 ways to get it back.

Stop Complaining

Nobody likes a Debbie Downer. If all you do is talk about the problems you have at work, no one will want to listen to you or help you in your plight. You may be unhappy in your job, but you don’t have to complain about it to everyone who asks you how you’re doing. (This includes Twitter and Facebook, people! Your internet friends don’t need the negativity, either.) They’ve got their own problems and believe me, they’re tired of hearing about yours. Besides, complaining never helped anyone change their circumstances. Break out the positive energy and not only will it spread to the environment around you, but it will put you in a better position to take meaningful action to improve your situation.

Take Responsibility for Your Own Career

This follows from the first point I made about not complaining. Remember that your boss is NOT ultimately responsible for your career fulfillment. You are. If something isn’t going the way you want it to, it’s up to you to either change it or get the hell out of there and seek out new opportunities. You can’t go around blaming other people for making you unhappy in your job – at some point you have to take matters into your own hands.

Start Something

After a while, even the best job can become boring. If you feel like you’re doing the same thing every day at work, kick it up a notch by taking on more responsibility through fun or interesting projects. Ask your co-workers if they need help with their current workload. Sit down with your boss to see how you might spearhead a new initiative to help meet the organization’s goals. The beauty of starting something and putting positive pressure on yourself to see it through is that it can make you look forward to Monday instead of dreading it.

Visit Your Clients

What does your organization actually do for your clients? Have you ever seen it in action? Whether you work for a nonprofit or a for-profit company, it will benefit you to take a couple hours one day to go visit one of your clients. Sit in on a pitch meeting, make a phone call to thank a satisfied customer, watch your counselors help the unemployed craft resumes, or attend a play your arts organization is performing. The idea is to see for yourself the impact that organization’s efforts have on others. It will make you appreciate why you do your work every day, no matter how rough it gets.

Find a Mentor

Think about someone you admire in your industry and then ask them to sit down with you for a coffee or over lunch once per quarter. It doesn’t have to be a formal relationship, just someone you can talk shop with, pick their brain and get clarity about the next steps in your career. Most people will be happy to help you in your growth, especially if it gives them an opportunity to pass on their wealth of knowledge to the new leaders coming up after them. So don’t be afraid to ask your mentor how they got started and what advice they have for someone trying to climb the ladder in your particular field.

Be a Mentor to Someone Else

If you’ve been in your job a few years, chances are you also have a lot to teach the newbies that are just starting in your field. Take someone under your wing and show them the ropes at your organization or offer to help a person who’s at the beginning stages of trying to break into your industry. Helping someone at a lower rung on the career ladder can give you a huge sense of pride and purpose in your own work once you see how you can make an impact in their life.

Stop Being a Martyr

How many times have you heard someone say, “If I didn’t work 70 hours a week, there’s no way everything would get done around here.” This is the behavior of a martyr: one who suffers for the sake of principle or for a particular cause. But really, there’s no reason for you to stay at work until the wee hours of the night unless you work for a startup. If you’re always working overtime, it’s usually because there’s a problem with time management or your boss is simply taking advantage of you by asking (or strongly encouraging) that you stay late. Get rid of the need to feel indispensable at work and you might just start to enjoy the time you do spend there a little more.  The work that has to be done can, and will get completed if you live your life like a normal person.

Ask for a Raise

A lot of people hate their jobs because they simply don’t get paid enough. But that doesn’t have to be the case. You don’t have to live in near poverty. Everything is negotiable, whether you believe it or not. If you’re doing a good job, there’s no harm in asking for what I like to call a “salary adjustment.” If what you really need for your own peace of mind is more money, by all means you should ask for it. Of course, you may not get it, but the worst thing they can say is no. And at least your employer will know that you know your own worth. It doesn’t have to be all about money either. You can negotiate a work-from-home arrangement or ask for more vacation time. The point is that if you feel like your work is financially rewarded, you’ll be more happy in your job.

Take a Vacation

When was the last time you took a day off? Many employees save up their vacation time for when they have the money to take a fancy trip out of town, but you don’t have to wait that long. You are entitled to your days off, so use them! They are an important part of the compensation package for the work you do – you’ve earned them. You might take a day to just wander around at your local museum or goof off at the amusement park. Whatever you do, just stop hoarding your leave time and use it to recharge and come back to work with renewed energy.

Redesign Your Day

Maybe you’re just tired of coming into the office at 8am. If your schedule is set for you to work too early or too late, have a talk with your boss to ask if you can change it. I used to work a typical 9am to 5pm, but I worked better later in the day, so I simply told my boss I wanted to start coming in from 10am-6pm. It gave me more time to sleep in the morning, and didn’t harm the organization one bit. And I was a happier employee for it.

What are some other strategies you can use to fall back in love with your work?

9 Tips for Using Twitter to Build Your Nonprofit Network

As part of the Nonprofit Rockstar Book Tour, both Trista and I recently gave presentations to Young Nonprofit Professionals Network (YNPN) chapters in Minneapolis and San Diego about how to build your nonprofit network from scratch. In my presentation to YNPN San Diego, I really emphasized the importance of leveraging your social networks to advance your career. What surprised me is that so many of the young nonprofit professionals in attendance were not even on LinkedIn, let alone Twitter!

A lot of nonprofit folks are still skeptical about why they should be on Twitter, so today, I thought I’d share with you a few of my tips for using it effectively to build, create and expand your nonprofit network. As someone with almost 10,000 Twitter followers, I’ve learned a lot about navigating this tool for my own networking purposes. If you’re not on Twitter yet, read this first. And follow me if you don’t already. Otherwise, on to the tips!

Use your real name as your username.

Twitter has a maximum of 15 characters that you can use for your “handle” (no spaces). I know you want to be cute and all, but I recommend using your REAL NAME. Please don’t make it difficult for people to find you if your name is abcd123. Plus, using your real name makes it easier to associate that name with the particular value and expertise you bring online. If your name is already taken as a handle (or is too long), you can always use a variation, or even a combination of your industry and your name, such as @nonprofitnicole. Right away, you know she works in nonprofits and her name is Nicole. Brilliant. (And yes, if you’re using a weird username right now, you can go ahead and change it without losing followers. Go here to learn how.)

Upload a great photo.

Every Twitter profile should have some type of photo, otherwise people will think you’re an evil spambot. The picture should ideally be a photo of your face. Smiling. Why? Because it’s easier for people to build a personal relationship with you when they can actually see who you are. No good pictures of yourself? This would be a good time to ask someone to take one for you. ALL your social networks require a great headshot, not just Twitter!

Fill out your profile completely.

Once you choose your name and upload a photo, take a moment to tell people about yourself! Enter a brief (160 characters is all Twitter allows) profile that describes who you are and what you do. And, this is a biggie: don’t forget to enter the url for a web site people can visit to learn more about you. That could be your blog, organization website, or your LinkedIn profile. Empty urls on Twitter are a missed opportunity to allow people to find commonalities with your work. But whatever you do, please don’t use your Facebook profile if it’s not public! That’s just frustrating for people who are not yet your friend and aren’t sure yet if they want to be.

Follow other nonprofit leaders.

People always ask me how I got so many followers and my best answer is that I followed A LOT of people! I’m following almost as many people as are following me. Which should tell you that most of the people you follow will also follow you back. If you don’t know who to connect with in the nonprofit Twitter world just yet, here’s a list of the top 30 nonprofit news sources and thought leaders on Twitter to jumpstart your following.

Talk to people.

That’s right, the best way to get to know your newfound Twitter followers is to @ reply them and say something! You can respond to one of their tweets or ask them a question about their work. No need to feel like you’re “butting in” to conversations. That’s what Twitter is for. It’s one big networking party and you’re always invited!

Tweet often.

No one likes following or @ replying a person who only comes on Twitter once a month. A good rule of thumb is to tweet a few times a day, with a mix of personal and professional updates. Also, make sure you respond to as many of your @ replies as possible. Be an active part of the community and people will consider you a resource!

Use hashtags.

When you post an update or link on Twitter, you can make sure it reaches more people in your network by using relevant hashtags like #nonprofit or #philanthropy. People will take notice of your interests and begin to connect with you on that basis.

Participate in Twitter chats.

A great way to engage in productive conversations with your Twitter network is to be active in the Twitter chats that are relevant to your work or interest area. Here’s a huge list of almost 250 Twitter chats to get you started! Surely, there’s at least one on the list that can connect you to some great people in your field.

Meet your followers in person.

I recently met @janebozarth in person (who just happens to look exactly like her Twitter avatar, by the way). We’ve been following each other for awhile and it was great to be able to chat with her in real life and learn more about her work. Often, you’ll meet people on Twitter that live or work near you. Or, you both may be in the same town for a nonprofit conference. Don’t be afraid to reach out to your Twitter peeps for a cup of coffee or lunch if you’re in the same vicinity! It’s really the best way to turn online connections into offline relationships.

What Twitter tips have worked for you in building your professional network?

Two Ways to Leverage Your College Education in the Nonprofit Job Search

Yesterday’s New York Time’s article about the resurgence of nonprofit careers confirms what I’ve been telling jobseekers for the past year: nonprofits are still hiring!

Idealist.org, the main online portal for nonprofit jobs, has seen increases in postings on their site.

“Jobs are back,” said Ami Dar, executive director of Idealist.org, an online clearinghouse for nonprofits. In the fall of the 2008, when the economic crisis hit, job postings on the site fell by 40 percent. Now they are nearly back to precrisis levels, he said.

And over at The Chronicle of Philanthropy, job openings have also been on the rise.

. . . employment ads have been sluggish all year, but in the Nov. 4 issue job postings suddenly doubled, said Stacy Palmer, the publication’s editor — perhaps reflecting a newfound confidence in the economy and people’s willingness to give.

The good news is that this is a great opportunity for young professionals in the job market, especially recent grads who are looking to enter the nonprofit sector or switch from brief stints in the corporate world.

But the bad news is that many young professionals are still not leveraging the true power of their education in their nonprofit career. While a college degree is an important asset to be able to bring to the table in your nonprofit job search, it doesn’t matter if you don’t use the negotiating power it can bring to your career.

Leadership scholar Gary Yukl explains that there are several different types of power, one of them being the expert power that can result from formal education. Meaning that when you have extensive education or knowledge in a particular subject, people are more likely to listen to you because they believe that you have special knowledge about how to perform certain tasks. In other words, when a hiring manager, your colleagues, or your boss perceive that you have a high level of expertise, they are more likely to respond favorably to your suggestions and ideas.

How, then, do you use your education to your advantage?  At the very least, it’s clear that it’s not enough to simply list your degree on your resume. Here are a few ways to make your education work for you in the nonprofit job search process.

Shameless Self-Promotion

If you have a degree from a great school or program, don’t be afraid to tell people. It may seem like tooting your own horn, but what good is a degree from Harvard if no one knows about it? You can’t always assume that your colleagues or even hiring managers have taken note of your educational accomplishments, so it’s your job to tell them. When you’re networking or introducing yourself, you can briefly mention the degree you have as a point of reference for others to get to know you and your background. But don’t just say “I have a Master’s from Yale” as that can come off as obnoxious. Say things like, “in my social entrepreneurship class at Stanford, we learned XYZ about marketing and I’d like to try those ideas out here.” You may also want to consider using MBA, MS, or PhD after your name as part of your email signature if you have completed these kinds of advanced education.

Demonstrate the Link Between the Job and Your Education

It’s important to be able to talk about how your degree or expertise in a given subject is relevant to the nonprofit job you’d like to have. I once met a recent grad who had completed a bachelor’s degree in African studies and worked for the Save Darfur Coalition. His degree was a unique asset to the organization because he knew about all of the intricate issues involved in the cause the organization was working for. It was clear to the organization that he could play a key role and hit the ground running, something that few recent grads would be able to do. As Steven Pascal-Joiner, a nonprofit midcareer transitions coordinator for Idealist.org, advises:

“It’s not enough to say, ‘I want to work for a nonprofit.’ You need to know what kind of organization you want to work for, the role you want to play and why.”

Has your education served you well in your nonprofit career? How have you used your expert power to your advantage?

P.S. If you haven’t gotten your copy of How to Become a Nonprofit Rockstar yet, you can get it here.

When You’re Doing the Right Work

“So human beings come to this world to do particular work. That work is the purpose, and each is specific to the person.” – Rumi

I’ve been traveling a lot lately, which means business is good! In the last few months, I’ve been to Milwaukee, Atlanta, Austin, Jacksonville, and San Antonio for speaking engagements and leadership development workshops. This month I’m headed to San Diego and Durham, North Carolina and I can’t wait! I love traveling, seeing new places and meeting new people. It’s the best part of my job. I get to be constantly inspired by people whose purpose in life is to change the world for the better.

Through speaking, training and coaching I get to share fresh ideas with nonprofit leaders all over the country and help them think about how to lead better. I get to explore with them different ways to approach the work.

I get paid to do what I love.

Ultimately, I think that’s why most people enter the nonprofit field – because they love being a part of social change and working in the sector allows them to do that.

But sometimes people inadvertently choose the wrong work. They choose causes they aren’t passionate about or organizations that aren’t right for them or roles that don’t make use of their unique skills and abilities.

Sometimes people even end up being martyrs for the cause, burning out and quitting their nonprofit job out of frustration.

That’s when you know you’re doing the wrong work. When you’re unhappy, unfulfilled and unappreciated, there’s some kind of disconnect between what you want to contribute and what you’re actually able to.

And believe me, everyone wants to contribute. We all have our bad days, but at our core we all yearn for self-actualization. We’re all hungry for the opportunity to reach our full potential in work and life. We really do want to be our best selves and do our best work. At the end of the day, we all want to be able to say our lives meant something.

Lately, my work has been coming from a very spiritual, connected place in the sense that when I’m in a room with people who want to learn, I’m fully present with them in that moment. When I’m on stage or facilitating a workshop, I’m committed to sharing my unique gifts with the group in the hopes that it will help them in their leadership journey. And when people come up to me afterwards and tell me I inspired them? That’s when I feel absolutely certain that I’m doing the exact work I’ve been called to do.

I think that’s when you know you’re doing the right work. When it doesn’t feel like “work.” Instead, it feels more like a gift you’re giving to the world . . . and to yourself.

Are you doing the right work? If not, why not?

The Myth of Meritocracy (and Why We Wrote How to Become a Nonprofit Rockstar)

Many young people come into the nonprofit field thinking that simply because they have a college degree and a few skills, they will automatically soar in their careers. I probably don’t have to tell you that this is not usually how the story goes. Sure, a degree and some basic know-how can get you in the door of a nonprofit organization, but it’s not ever enough to earn a promotion, get a raise or put you in line for leadership positions in the community. No, for that, you need to go above and beyond the bare minimum of just doing your job. What I’ve seen among my peers, however, is a constant disappointment with the fact that it’s tougher than they thought it would be to create a successful career path in the nonprofit sector.

And now I’ve got a hunch about why.

This week I was in New Orleans for the Organizational Development Network Conference. It was so nice to be able to be the student in the midst of all the speaking and teaching I’ve been doing this year. I always learn so much from the OD Network sessions and there are many more nuggets to share, but right now what’s on my mind is an idea from the closing keynote about the myth of meritocracy.

Meritocracy is an ideology that contends individuals be assigned certain roles, responsibilities or positions based on their intelligence or skill. In other words, it’s the idea that people be judged solely on their merit. The college GPA game is an example of decisions made through meritocracy. If you earned high marks in your classes, you’d get named to the Dean’s List, regardless of whether, say, you were a good role model or not.

Chris Rabb, author of the new book, Invisible Capital expounded on this idea in his closing keynote speech and talked about how certain merit-based proverbs have been ingrained into us since birth.

All you have to do is work hard and do your best and you’ll be rewarded.

As long as you have a good attitude, you’ll get ahead.

With perseverance, you’re bound to succeed.

Just get good grades and the world will be your oyster.

Chris pointed out that the problem with all of these commonly held ideals is that they assume a level playing field. While he was talking specifically about entrepreneurship and business, the myths hold up in the nonprofit arena as well. In the nonprofit sector, just like with any other sector, all things are not created equal. If you’re young or don’t have much of a reputation or track record within social change, it doesn’t matter if you graduated top of your class. It’s still going to be challenging for you to move up the ladder in your career.

So clearly, we’ve got to get away from this idea that if we just do good work, it will be noticed and rewarded. This belief is actually what often limits nonprofit leaders from prioritizing our own professional development and consequently stunting our career growth.

Which is exactly why me and Trista wrote How to Become a Nonprofit Rockstar: 50 Ways to Accelerate Your Career. As we discuss in the video below, the book seeks to address the gap in career development for nonprofit professionals who are ready to take their leadership to the next level. In short, this book is for those of you who are ready to ROCK.

Wanna Bring Nonprofit Rockstar to Your City?

The Nonprofit Rockstar Book Tour begins in November 2010 with stops in Washington DC, Indianapolis, Minneapolis, San Diego and Wisconsin. Me and Trista are available to come to YOUR city for book signings and events. We’re both skilled at providing unique, inspiring and effective keynotes and presentations for nonprofit audiences of all sizes. Want to book us for an event, conference, workshop or book signing? Learn more about how you can bring the book tour to your city here.

P.S. Check out the first review of our book by Devin Mathias of the More Donors blog!

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