In the Joy of a New Beginning: Southern Partners Fund Celebrates 10 Years of Philanthropy

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Before lunch Hollis Watkins from Southern Echo leads us in a song. He’s remixed Harry Belafonte’s “Day-O (Banana Boat Song)” changing “daylight come and me wanna go home” to:

Freedom! Give us freedom, freedom come and it won’t be long.

Freedom, freedom, freedom come and it won’t be long.

Alta Starr from the Ford Foundation calls Rev. Dr. Joseph Lowery to the stage to standing applause. He is our keynote speaker and highly revered for his enduring service to the social justice movement. Hailed as the “Dean of the Civil Rights Movement,” Rev. Dr. Lowery represents a legacy of service and commitment to the nonviolent struggle for the causes of justice, human rights, economic equality, voting rights, peace and human dignity. Rev. Dr. Lowery delivered the Benediction on the occasion of President Obama’s inauguration and is the recent recipient of The Presidential Medal of Freedom.

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Rev. Dr. Lowery takes us back to the scene of President  Barack Obama’s inauguration, where he used the phrase “in the joy of a new beginning” because Obama’s election created new hope in people. He quotes Revelation 21: I saw a new heaven and a new earth, and the old heaven and the old earth passed away.

Our land needs healing and all of you are in the healing business. I love anniversaries because they give you a new beginning.  I told my wife we should celebrate our wedding anniversary three-four times a year! Southern Partners Fund’s 10th Anniversary is a new beginning for you. After 10 years of work and stewardship, now you’re looking to the next decade.

Rev. Dr. Lowery says that he supported Barack Obama because he thought God was trying to give us a new beginning. He went around the country asking people why they liked Barack Obama. One white woman said it was because he’s sexy. Rev. Dr. Lowery asked his wife if she thought Barack was sexy. She said, “no comment!” Rev. Dr. Lowery went to Iowa with Obama to see if he would elicit support from a majority white community. He saw white people standing in the cold to hear him, suffering from runny noses and holding signs saying, “Yes, We Can!”

God has given us a new beginning and we need to grab ahold of the joy that comes with that. I know the challenges you’re facing but God says you can look at things in a new way.  Black folk and white folk can’t get away from each other. There’s no hiding place. We’re tied together inextricably. We have to work together. He uses the story of the movie The Defiant Ones, starring Sidney Poitier and Tony Curtis as two escaped convicts chained together, white and black, who must learn to get along in order to elude capture.

Rev. Dr. Lowery reminds us that power can be generated by a small group of people. The power is in our hands, not in the hands of those who are so blind they can’t see. He says that we’re ushering in a new era and the whole world sees it. Rev. Dr. Lowery just turned 88 years old, and says his old eyes couldn’t see the Lincoln Memorial from the Mall during Obama’s inauguration. But in his mind, he went back to when he heard Martin Luther King, Jr., a 34-old preacher speaking at the Memorial. He said that he’d always thought that someday there would be a Black president, but none of his fellow civil rights leaders thought they’d live to see it.  For the first time in his life, when they played the “Star-Spangled Banner,” it sounded pretty good to him.

Freedom come and it won’t be long.

Later in the evening, the freedom theme continues with Southern Partners Fund’s 10th Anniversary Awards Dinner and Gala. With performances by Ballethnic Dance Company, Joyce & Jacque, and Ken Ford Strings, the atmosphere is lively and full of Southern charm and sophistication. In attendance are philanthropists, nonprofit leaders, and most of the community organizers from the day’s Social Justice Institute.

Several awards go out to supporters of social justice in the South. Humanitarian awards are presented to Xernona Clayton, Founder of the Trumpet Awards Foundation and Creator of the Trumpet Awards highlighting African American accomplishments and contributions  and Shaffer “Ne-Yo” Smith, Founder of the Compound Foundation. R&B star Ne-Yo’s misses his flight so his mother accepts his award on his behalf. To the audience’s delight, he ends up making it to the celebration at the very end, just in time to take photos with attendees.

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We are treated to a special spoken word performance by Mike Molina, telling us to “Be Encouraged” (watch the video here or click the play button below)

We continue to celebrate the other awardees with amazing musical interludes and a lovely dinner.

Social Justice Leadership Award for Justice

Marguerite Casey Foundation

Social Justice Leadership Award for Freedom

Southern Echo (President Hollis Watkins pictured accepting award below)

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Social Justice Leadership Award for Peace

Barbara Meyer of the Bert and Mary Meyer Foundation (BAMM) (pictured accepting award below)

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Barbara had these words of wisdom for the group:

  • Learn how to stop and breath deeply when chaos surrounds you.
  • Remember that unasked-for advice can be heard as criticism.
  • The most important thing is life is to learn how to give love and let it come in. Love is the only rational act.

It was a great way to end an inspiring day. When the music started up for dancing afterwards, you could tell that this wasn’t just any old gala with your rubber chicken and empty recognitions. For the Southern Partners Fund and their grantees, this was truly a party. A time for them to raise a glass to their 10 years of hard work and revel in the joy of a new beginning for the next 10 years.

Full disclosure: Southern Partners Fund paid me to provide blogging services for this event to leverage the power of social media to share their stories with the wider philanthropic community. The views expressed here are solely my own, however, and I stand by my commitment to authentic coverage of these issues. Would you like to hire me? Visit my portfolio to see samples of my work.

A New Generation of Activists Rise to Face New Challenges

The second morning of Young Leaders for Social Change opens with an impromptu poem by Nelson, one of the participants. He recites a piece called “Ghetto Child,” recounting the struggles of a childhood lived in poverty. Southern Partners Fund’s Fernando Cuevas tells of his experience being a migrant worker in the fields with his parents when he was just five years old.  It’s a good way to begin a day of addressing shared challenges, of discussing common narratives. For over half the room, this is their first social justice conference. Half the room has been involved in community organizing for over two years. Half the room is under 25. Yet they are no strangers to struggle. A morning “armchair discussion” brings some deep conversations to the surface, followed by concurrent workshops shed light on various issues that young activists, community organizers, and nonprofit leaders are facing in their work right now.

Monica Simpson of Resource Generation moderates Bridging the Gap: What are the Challenges We Face? joined by panelists Jessica Norwood (Emerging Changemakers Network), Erin Byrd (Black Workers for Justice/Fruit of Labor/Blueprint NC), and Dwayne Marshall (The Hope Institute). Panelists offered insight into the challenges as well as some viable solutions.

An Unclear Path to Leadership

“Young people think they don’t know who they are but everyone is going through the same journey”, said Stacey, an advocate for engaging more women in politics. “I’m 28 and there are still some days where I feel like I don’t know who I am.” Jessica: We sometimes don’t give ourselves the permission to believe that something else is possible. You want a career trajectory, more resources. But before you get to that, there’s something inside of you that needs to be stirred up. We wait for someone to tell us what can be instead of listening to what’s inside. You already know the answer. We’re looking for someone else’s story to guide us to the blueprint for how it’s going to be. The blueprint is inside of you. You already have it. The opportunity we face is to believe beyond what people have told us – we have not yet tapped into the fullness of what’s inside of us. You can start to see the world in very different ways. Jessica moved from NYC back to Mobile, Alabama right before Hurricane Katrina hit. The after-effects of the storm removed the “box” for her. All of a sudden, everything was possible. Ask why can’t it be done? Why not? The only question is, how do we do it?

Creating a New Structure of Collaboration and Accountability

Erin: Yes, it’s very important to get out the vote. But who are we voting for? Who’s on the ballot? She’s working on behalf of working black families, which is very different than working with middle-class NAACPers. There is a need to build access to resources, how do we create structures, processes, rules of engagement? An example of her work with Blueprint NC: everybody sees the budget, helps decide what the money is used for. How do we create spaces to work together for a common good, instead of from a place of scarcity? We can fight over scraps or work together to get the whole pie. Erin mentions a model program called HK on J, a 14-point people’s agenda whose motto is, “a movement, not a moment.”

Dwayne: I came from a corporate banking background. After his cousin was sentenced to life in prison, he had a personal life recalibration. Changed focus of work to urban redevelopment planning, bringing services to communities in distress. He saw too many black men involved in the penal system, most of them high school dropouts. Realized that youth need a solid educational foundation. Got involved with the Obama campaign last year. There are various ways to be involved in social change – not just on the front lines. Problem is that often times social justice is only discussed from a “minority” prism. But Martin Luther King said that injustice anywhere is injustice everywhere. We look at the issues solely from a “me” perspective, but we need to allow others to understand and get involved with us. What about the broader Diaspora of the minority community?

Older Leaders Don’t Want to Give Up Power

A young woman in the audience asks, “What about the changing of the guard? They don’t want to mentor, give up the power, share the knowledge.” Erin suggests that young people really think about what exactly you want from a relationship with older leaders. Don’t just say, mentor me. What do you really want to learn from this person? Keep looking for the ones that are tired. Try to figure out how to be helpful and supportive of them, and don’t get discouraged the first time. Keep going back. This is about the liberation of our people. Some older people have issues with trusting young folks because they don’t take us seriously – you may need to show your passion and commitment – you may need to prove it to them.

No Money, Mo’ Problems

The panel discussed issues with low compensation. Jessica: Make it okay for you not to make all the cheddar. Dwayne: If you have the passion, the money will come. Find your own sweet spot. We have to fight for social change but also deal with personal change. Jessica: I own a bottled water company. Keep yourself open to other opportunities – consulting, starting a socially responsible business. There is a way to bridge business with the nonprofit movement. Push the model. If you think it’s possible; it’s possible.

Motivating Others for Social Change

How do you motivate and unite those that don’t see the need for social change? We’re usually preaching to the choir. Erin: We need to figure out the common values that people hold. A person can be passionate about one social issue, but not another. Target people where they are with the values we both share and then go from there. For example, people may care about ending racism but not care about LGBT issues. Even though we know they overlap, people don’t always think that way. Monica: Come from your heart, “Here’s how I feel, what about you?” Keep yourself honest and open to these ongoing conversations. Explain things to people in ways they understand. Be humble, don’t dress in a suit if people might think you think you’re “all that.” Meet them where they are and they’ll be more likely to listen to you. Many people of color don’t understand health reform. How do you break it down in a way that everyone can understand the issues? Erin: Communication is a strategy – check out DEMOS, Frameworks Institute. People think in narratives, in story, in a box.  The way we communicate triggers stories in people’s minds that often don’t benefit us. For example, the right’s call for smaller government. American people think: less taxes. Community groups think: weaker institutions to help communities. There is a cautionary word from the audience: Sharing the voices of others should not be in response to fear. Barack Obama is an example of good community organizing. But you have to stand with people. Affirm courage and encourage courage in others.

Strategic Use of Social Capital

A tall young man stands up from the Young People’s Project from Jackson, Mississippi. What’s the importance of networks vs. partnerships and collaborations? Jessica: There is a certain capital you have to put up to be a part of any network. An agreement you make to support your idea. Then you put in financial resources, people resources. Not the kind of networking where you pass out business cards. Use your network to move your work forward.  Need to build partnerships that last beyond any particular initiative. A good example: in New Orleans, the People’s Institute holds monthly roundtables on Saturday or Sunday to discuss issues affecting the community.

Panelists then offered a few final words of advice. Jessica: If you accept no, then no is the answer. Erin: Be okay being in the space between who you are and who you are becoming. Switch negative self-talk to positive things.  It’s okay to love deeply, be authentic and be real. Dwayne: Leadership requires vulnerability. Life is a journey. Enjoy it.

The panel also recommends a study for further thinking: Organizing for Justice in the South by the Institute for Southern Studies.

Energized and inspired, the group moves into various workshops for the remainder of the day.  But not before I catch up with Charles from Detroiters Working for Environmental Justice. In this short video, he shares how he got involved in community organizing work. The wow factor: he was first a client benefiting from DWEJ’s green jobs program, now he is one of their strongest advocates.

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Young Leaders for Social Change Opens With a Song

“At first I thought I was alone, now I know there are many of us.” – Moses, a young Latino activist via an interpreter

I can hear the singing as soon as I step off the elevator. The opening reception for Young Leaders for Social Change has begun and though the festivities have already started, someone makes room for me in the “Circle”. About 50 young leaders of color are here to network and engage in discussion and knowledge building sessions focused on social justice issues. Hosted by the Southern Partners Fund, Young Leaders for Social Change is their inaugural gathering of young and emerging community organizers, nonprofit professionals, college students, and philanthropic practitioners, ages 18-35, who are committed to social change around the country, but particularly in the rural South.

We are in midtown Atlanta, the city where, fifty years earlier, student protesters organized sit-ins at local restaurants to protest racial segregation. A city with such a historical role in the civil rights movement that it is the site of The King Center, a memorial to Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.  A city where, on Sunday mornings, you can still hear the triumphant singing of worshipers bursting from Ebenezer Baptist Church, where Dr. King preached the gospel of nonviolence and social justice. Tonight, there is also singing, and clapping, and even spoken word poetry. Performer and facilitator Mike Molina shares some of his original poetry and encourages other artists to step into the circle and share their gifts. “I salute you for just being you,” he says.

In case you haven’t noticed, this ain’t yo mama’s nonprofit conference.

There are few white people in attendance. Mostly there are young African American and Latino leaders, even some who don’t speak English. There is an interpreter. Far from your run-of-the-mill emcee, we have Milano Harden from The Genius Group and a 2009-2010 ABFE Fellow, who greets participants with a smile and the kind of voice I only hear in the choir at church.  He sings, acapella, what appears to be an original song, “…hold on to your faith and patience…” We begin to introduce ourselves. Milano encourages us to honor the differences in the room. “I’m not into simply tolerating diversity, I’m into honoring it. But first we have to acknowledge it.” He reminds us that there are no swift, easy answers to the issues we’ll be talking about in discussions and workshops during the conference – equity, structural racism, social justice. We are instructed to respect the complexity of this work, what the issues can trigger for us, and to trust the wisdom of the group.

I meet a bubbly youth community organizer from Mississippi who was inspired by a family friend to pursue a career in social change. She talks passionately about working with kids, but a cloud comes over her face when I ask her how she likes doing the work. She’s been at it for a few years, she tells me. And it’s becoming stressful because there are longer hours now, and the work is never done.

Many conference attendees are still students trying to figure out their path into the realm of social justice work. One young woman from Emory University tells me about her experiences volunteering abroad to educate HIV/AIDS patients. She tells of working with a 14-year old girl who had been raped, then ostracized by her family after contracting HIV. The girl’s family wanted to know if they could share eating utensils with their infected daughter. Back in America, the young woman from Emory is still trying to explain to her Indian-Pakistani parents why she wants to help people instead of pursuing a financially lucrative career after college.

We form mini-circles, and talk more about our individual experiences. Behind the nametags are shared hopes and dreams of serving our communities and becoming effective leaders. Each of us serving as each other’s inspiration. A 20-year old working to engage youth in environmental justice teaches me about what’s happening in his community and why green jobs are so important to communities of color. I ask him if he’s heard of Majora Carter and her work to “Green the Ghetto”. He shakes his head no. I call it an even exchange – his knowledge for mine. One community organizer from Detroit sums it up for everyone:

“We all told different stories, but they were all my stories.”

A young woman named Monica begins to sing a rendition of Jill Scott’s “Golden” and the clapping begins again. This time, there is a silent resolve in the room, an unspoken commitment to tackling the hard issues tomorrow, together.

Although hosted by a foundation, you really couldn’t tell that philanthropy (with a big “P”) was in the room. Try as I might, I cannot think of a conference I’ve ever been to that was so inclusive, and decidedly untraditional. I just wish all of you dear readers were here to see it for yourselves.

Full disclosure: Southern Partners Fund paid me to provide blogging services for this event to leverage the power of social media to share their stories with the wider philanthropic community. The views expressed here are solely my own, however, and I stand by my commitment to authentic coverage of these issues. Would you like to hire me? Visit my portfolio to see samples of my work.

*Names have been withheld to preserve the confidentiality of the conversations held during the conference.

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